Any other options I should be considering?

My sibling is choosing to have a destination wedding (outside the continental US), inviting only parents, siblings, and siblings' children. Total cost is looking to be on the order of 10% of our take home pay, or well over twice what we have ever spent on a family vacation before.

As I see it, there are only three choices: none of us attend, I attend alone, or I attend with my wife and children.

Of those have been in a similar situation, which option did you choose? If you chose not to attend or chose to attend alone, what were the "consequences"? Any other options I should be considering?

Please help.

I didn't find the right solution from the internet.

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Thank you

posted Jul-21-2018 @ 11:48 by spadekevin